Distant is Better? ( Comfort Pain )

Day 39,

Hey there all, you see theres something that we tend to do believe it or not, we don't like when people does this things to us but instead of doing something better or not that, we do the same thing back it goes to me as well. You see we all have issues in life from different aspects of our lifes, and we tend to let the issue sit in us, or well take a distant from the issue, at first I was like why is everyone running away from there problems it won't fix anything, but actually I'm doing the same thing, by making myself distant, by running away, by not interacting. We let ourselves sit in our comfort zone, but this comfort zone is actually what not our comfort zone, it's because we remember the pain, we don't want to get hurt well to be honest, we are all hiding in our comfort because we are afraid and our pride is as high as the sky. But this is not in fact near the comfort, like grudge it's actually well dangerous. But then there are also problems in life where it is out of our control. So how then? both intertwine? A friend of mine told me that yes we surrender, but also there is also a sense of each us of wanting to get out of that comfort.