People who Disappoint us...
- Gracya Rudiman
- Sep 28, 2017
- 2 min read

In life we all meet different kind of people, some we can say brings a bigger impact then others, some well touch us or even changed us to become someone we never expect to be. People who renew, modify and opening our eyes. But there is no one perfect in the world, even the highest honored people in our life will, well disappoint. The bigger the person was in our life, the bigger the disappointment, when we are disappointed in someone a lot of things could happen, such as anger, conflict, hate, and so much more that the one who is getting the impact is not the person who disappoint us... Well it could be other people, people around us, people who seems not involve also became the people we are disappointed too. That is called a sense of expression where, and outcome to what is holding us. But again no one is perfect, sure they disappoint us but is it really worth the anger, sadness and all those outcome? The thing is no one love conflict, no one wants to be hurt so we all tend to just to leave it behind putting the past in the past. But thats all we do, because honestly that sense of disappointment is still there and will cling onwards in life. Lets take a time to reflect to ourselves.. have we ever disappoint someone? someone we care about? I believe most of us would say yes.. what was it like when someone is disappointed in us? was it good? did we like the feeling? and again I believe most of us will say no. No one is perfect, we all have flaws including you and me, but the flaws are what makes the person human, makes the person not so different from you and me, we all tend to focus on the disappointment and not the thing that made me honor, respect and love the person. It could be a friend, a teacher, a priest and the list goes on. Sadly when we carry disappointment, the one whose hurting is ourselves, but if let go and remember how the person was, accept and well forgive, it would just brings things stronger and better. So then what will we choose, the disappointment? or happiness?
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